The 'sync' of the self.

When while interacting with the world, one is aware of himself/herself, the reason may be, that we have conditioned ourself not to be in 'sync', with our surroundings. When we are completely lost in thought, or feeling, and are made to distract from them due to extraneous circumstances, one feels not in 'sync' with the proceedings. One is not comfortable, either with the previous, nor the current thought. This leads to thoughts and attitudes of insecurity. The individual may wonder, if he is right, or wrong. The way to self control, in modern times, is to feel all impulses. When one takes responsibility, due to the consequent 'sync', that may be obtained, one acts accordingly. What I have expressed, is just an expression.